The book

A Book About the Friendships That Shape Us

Some books make you think. Others make you remember. This one does both, and even goes further to invite you to examine the friendships that have changed you, stayed with you, or, perhaps slipped away. Read it for yourself, and then give it to a friend who has been part of your story.

Will you be my friend? Book Cover
Kahlil Gibran

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Available in Print & eBook

The book's chapters are accompanied by illustrations from Khalil Gibran, offering another way to reflect on the themes of friendship, connection, loss, and spiritual companionship.

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What readers are saying

Reader Reviews

“A major synthesis of a variety of wisdom traditions and the author's own experiences. A much needed resource at this current time.”

Thomas Long, Ph.D. Retired professor of English, University of Connecticut

“My empathy with others increased, as well as my emotional awareness overall. It helped me be more self-aware and work on becoming a more compassionate friend.”

Evan Ingersoll, Ph.D. Biobehavioral Sciences, University of Connecticut

“A culmination of decades of introspection. If you've ever felt lonely, read it.”

Jean Ng New York City

“This is a superb summary of friendship and its importance in our lives.”

Jim Nowicki Volunteer Prison Ministry

“Here philosophy meets the essay form.... The first five chapters could stand the test of time as representative of our modern age.”

Chuck Selvaggio English teacher

“The more we read, the more curious we became about what friendship really is.”

Holly and Walt Galloway Rhode Island

“...It reminded me why I have only a handful of people I truly love, respect, and call my friends.”

Pilar Pennsylvania

“The book very skillfully moves one from head to heart.”

Blair Anderson Minnesota elder

“The deeper I went, the more compelling it became.”

George Sawin LICSW, Massachusetts

“The footnotes are rigorous; they establish that we're not inventing friendship anew, but participating in an ancient and ongoing dialogue about human connection. This level of care—this refusal to oversimplify—made me trust the book deeply.”

Karen RN, a Nurse, Delaware

“What stood out was the deep discussion of loneliness and how, despite being more technologically connected than ever, so many people are experiencing a deeper sense of isolation.”

Liz Pol Chicago

“You’ve heard of page-turners and books you can’t put down. This is one you can’t turn a page of without picking up an insight.”

Sheldon Bart Writer, Explorer, Author

One more question before you go

As you read about this book, who is the friend that comes to mind?

Maybe this is the book you read yourself. Maybe it's the book you give to someone you care about. Because some friendships are worth celebrating.