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Some books are meant to be read together. Friendship …in a lonely age asks questions that become even more interesting when we share our answers. Gather a few friends, start a conversation, and discover what the book brings to your own lives and friendships.
Make it your kind of book club
Choose the shape that fits your people
The size of the group matters less than the willingness to talk.
Book Club Resources
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Find a Book Club
Don’t want to start your own?
Your local library probably has one. Most public libraries host free book clubs. Here’s how to find them:
- Go to your library’s website and search “book club”
- Call your library and ask: “What book clubs do you have? How do I join?”
- Visit in person and ask at the front desk for their book club schedule
Take the conversation chapter by chapter
Questions to Think About. Stories to Share
Each chapter ends with questions designed to take you beyond the page and into your own experience of friendship.
Every chapter’s questions, in one file.
By downloading this PDF, you will have discussion questions to use for your book club. These prompts are well tested and have been found to be effective for deeper conversations.
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How to use these materials
Let the conversation wander
There is no right way to discuss a book about friendship. Choose a few questions, let the conversation wander, share a story—or simply listen.
Explore the sources
The Thinking Behind the Book
This is the complete list of 172 works cited, quoted, or drawn on throughout Friendship ...in a lonely age. Beyond being a record of the thinking behind the book, these sources were integral to the author's own life, each one having played a part in deepening his faith journey.
Go deeper into the traditions and stories.
Every source referenced in the endnotes appears here in full. It is offered for readers who want to go deeper into any of the traditions, thinkers, or stories mentioned along the way.
DOWNLOAD PDFFrom reading to living
Resources for Action
After the discussion ends, these resources help your group—and each reader—carry friendship into daily life: practices, organizations, and pathways for connection in a lonely age.
Take the next step beyond the page.
Organizations, practices, and next steps for deepening friendship in your own life and community—with direct links you can open right away.
EXPLORE RESOURCESKeep the conversation going
The conversation does not have to end when your meeting does
Between gatherings, share your thoughts, questions, and reflections with other readers on Instagram and Quora. These conversations are facilitated by a volunteer expert on the book, creating a space to keep exploring the ideas together.
See Friendship Through Gibran’s Eyes
The book’s chapters are accompanied by illustrations from Khalil Gibran, offering another way to reflect on the themes of friendship, connection, loss, and spiritual companionship.
Explore the illustration paired with each chapter as you read.
EXPLORE CHAPTER ILLUSTRATIONSLearn More About Kahlil Gibran
About Kahlil Gibran
Kahlil Gibran (1883–1931) was a Lebanese-American writer, poet, and visual artist whose spiritual wisdom shaped generations of readers. Born in Lebanon and immigrating to Boston at age twelve, Gibran spent much of his life in New York, where he produced both written works and visual art that bridged Eastern philosophy and Western thought.
Reviews & recognition
What Readers Are Saying
See what early readers, educators, and community leaders are discovering in the pages of Friendship …in a lonely age.
From deep reflections on modern loneliness to a renewed appreciation for lifelong bonds, the book is sparking meaningful conversations across communities.
"The more we read, the more curious we became about what friendship really is."
— Holly and Walt Galloway
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