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Some books are meant to be read together. Friendship …in a lonely age asks questions that become even more interesting when we share our answers. Gather a few friends, start a conversation, and discover what the book brings to your own lives and friendships.

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Make it your kind of book club

Make it your kind of book club

Choose the shape that fits your people

Meet around a table.
Meet over coffee.
Meet on Zoom.
Start with one other person.

The size of the group matters less than the willingness to talk.

Book Club Resources

Guides, questions, and books worth discussing

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Find a Book Club

Don’t want to start your own?

Your local library probably has one. Most public libraries host free book clubs. Here’s how to find them:

  1. Go to your library’s website and search “book club”
  2. Call your library and ask: “What book clubs do you have? How do I join?”
  3. Visit in person and ask at the front desk for their book club schedule

Take the conversation chapter by chapter

Questions to Think About. Stories to Share

Each chapter ends with questions designed to take you beyond the page and into your own experience of friendship.

ALL CHAPTER PROMPTS

Every chapter’s questions, in one file.

By downloading this PDF, you will have discussion questions to use for your book club. These prompts are well tested and have been found to be effective for deeper conversations.

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How to use these materials

How to use these materials

Let the conversation wander

There is no right way to discuss a book about friendship. Choose a few questions, let the conversation wander, share a story—or simply listen.

From reading to living

Resources for Action

After the discussion ends, these resources help your group—and each reader—carry friendship into daily life: practices, organizations, and pathways for connection in a lonely age.

RESOURCES FOR ACTION

Take the next step beyond the page.

Organizations, practices, and next steps for deepening friendship in your own life and community—with direct links you can open right away.

EXPLORE RESOURCES

Keep the conversation going

The conversation does not have to end when your meeting does

Between gatherings, share your thoughts, questions, and reflections with other readers on Instagram and Quora. These conversations are facilitated by a volunteer expert on the book, creating a space to keep exploring the ideas together.

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See Friendship Through Gibran's Eyes

See Friendship Through Gibran’s Eyes

The book’s chapters are accompanied by illustrations from Khalil Gibran, offering another way to reflect on the themes of friendship, connection, loss, and spiritual companionship.

Explore the illustration paired with each chapter as you read.

EXPLORE CHAPTER ILLUSTRATIONS

Learn More About Kahlil Gibran

About Kahlil Gibran

Kahlil Gibran (1883–1931) was a Lebanese-American writer, poet, and visual artist whose spiritual wisdom shaped generations of readers. Born in Lebanon and immigrating to Boston at age twelve, Gibran spent much of his life in New York, where he produced both written works and visual art that bridged Eastern philosophy and Western thought.

Reviews & recognition

What Readers Are Saying

See what early readers, educators, and community leaders are discovering in the pages of Friendship …in a lonely age.

From deep reflections on modern loneliness to a renewed appreciation for lifelong bonds, the book is sparking meaningful conversations across communities.

"The more we read, the more curious we became about what friendship really is."

— Holly and Walt Galloway

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Need help getting started, using the discussion materials, or organizing a conversation with your group? Get in touch and we’ll be happy to help.